Well imma try to answer those no problem. Altough this is gonna stray a bit from the fermentation topic...Dont know if all of it its gonna interest you, but you asked for it! ;D
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1-Lipids have numerous activities within the cell. It is a HUGE family of molecules. Their praimary function is forming the lipid bilayer that is present in all celular membranes. In there they provide structural support as well as mainiting a fluidity and forming specialized regions. Those are the more important funciotins for yeast health. Some lipids are actually also involved in celular signaling and signal transduction. That is, they bind to other molecules and that helps the cell (not necesarily a yeast cell, but those too) comunicate to other cells and integrate outside information. Some of them could be sphingolipids for example (but that is just one of many lipid families). Keep in mind, most lipids are in the membranes (not only the plasmatic one, also organelles) , and some have one function some have others. All of them are important for fluidity and rigidity as you say but that does not mean they dont have other funcitions. Its also worth mentioning here that the outer layer of lipids of the plasmatic mebrane does not have the same composition as the inner layer, and the different lipids can have different functions. All types are needed for a healthy membrane
2- Well im guessing giving O2 to the cell helps forming any molecule that has oxygen in them. Not only lipids have oxigen atoms. I was just trying to explain not everything is about lipids and sugars.
3- Some sugars are used to form glucolipids and glucoproteins. Probably not a significative ammount. winemaking has been going on for thousands of years so the conversions are more or less ok. glucose is broken into pyruvate that can be used to make other molecules, such as aminoacids, or it can be transformed into ethanol. diferent monosacharides (glucose, fructose) also can be bound together to make oligosacharides and polisacharides, or modified to make other monosacharides. All of those have cell functions.
About the ABV i have some doubts myself. Some of the ethanol can evaporate even at room temps and specially if you ferment in open buckets or something like that. That could be a significant altough small amount (plus or less 1% ABV, depends on temps, and how long you are fermenting in open conditions). I have also read that different yeast strains give a different ammount of alcohol (usually the ABV is between 0.58-0.63 x Brix degrees. More info about that here
http://www.gotmead.com/forum/showthread.php/26441-SG-versus-BRIX) And also it has been said that the SG-ABV relation is not linear, but i dont know how much of this is true or proven or significative (i mean that if you have an SG of 1.120 the alcohol produced from 1.120 to 1.110 is not the same than from 1.010 to 1.000)
4- Yes you are right, its more important in anabolism (as long as we are talking about yeast cells and anabolism vs fermentation)
5- MMMM as far as i know fermentation is the same. Some organisms just dont tolerate O2. That means they are only capable of anaerobic fermentation (that is, they ferment and dont tolerate O2). Aerobic fermentation is just that, fermentation is pressence of O2. Yeast does tolerate O2. As far as i know, there is no difference in the fermentation process, but if you add O2, some respiration can ocurr (and used for other processes if neccesary, as already mentioned).
The point when yeast stop the growth phase and enter stationary phase is dependant on the sugar in solution and the population of cells, if im not wrong. Thus, the moment when aereation is not needed anymore is different in every must (I admit i might be wrong on this one, not 100% sure). When yeast no longer absorbs the O2 it remains in the must and ends up binding to things there
Hope this clears some of your doubts and does not leave you bored as hell. If you want more specific info ask, or PM me, no problem. Also sorry for any typo or error, English is not my native language
Edit: also, just for kicks I'll let you know that my end of degree project was about how some molecules alter lipid metabolism. And guess what were some of those molecules? Yep, tannins.