Resilient, pretty close!
Nothing wrong with wanting to be anal for sure, heck I've grown lax and need to become stricter with my processes again! I sometimes warn newbies off certain paths off analness because I think it's unnecessary and might distract/discourage them, but certainly nothing wrong with doing it anyways!
EDIT: the other reason I discourage being too paranoid about oxidization is that some newbies are afraid to aerate, to rack, to stir, to do pretty much any of the things that will help the mead improve!
Nothing wrong with wanting to be anal for sure, heck I've grown lax and need to become stricter with my processes again! I sometimes warn newbies off certain paths off analness because I think it's unnecessary and might distract/discourage them, but certainly nothing wrong with doing it anyways!
EDIT: the other reason I discourage being too paranoid about oxidization is that some newbies are afraid to aerate, to rack, to stir, to do pretty much any of the things that will help the mead improve!