<snip>...Please tell me, Am I a bad meadmaker?
No, you're not a bad meadmaker...you've just discovered the hardest part about mead making; patience. ;D
It's not such a bad thing, since you get to drink some mead whenever you want. But, once you've seen and tasted the benefits of aging, it should help you to resist the temptation to allow for "evaporation" to happen again.
I know some members here keg their mead during the aging process (Medsen comes to mind), which allows you to sample the mead whenever you want without fear of increasing the headspace, since it's sealed with CO2 blanketing the mead. Might be something for you to consider I you don't think you can resist the call of the mead.