thanks all again
my problem seems to be stirring up the must with the cane, I actually have a good way to start the siphon, and it wasn't an "auto-siphon", a product I found woefully in adequate, I start the siphon, now, by adding pressure to the bottle via a fish tank pump, worked very well.
for the cane flipping around, I will fashion something more stable than the clip, also inadequate device, in my opinion.
The question of head, flow rate , and fluid velocity was considered, but I'm using equipment and suggestions that are recommended in most blogs and two different books, so it must just be me, or the way I'm doing it
and for 30 years, the imperial engineering units have served me well, it is just what you are used to.