I'll start by saying I do not know what has happened but lets try and discect what is going on a bit.
I added K-Meta to all yesterday and today added K-sorbate to the first three, with each I removed a small amount of mead, dissolved the K-sorbate, added back to carboy then stirred gently.
I do this with the K-Meta as well as it tends to not want to disolve very well. I have never needed to do this with the K-sorbate but it looks like it may have saved you some potential issues.
1.9g Fermaid K and 1.1g DAP at 72 hours at this point it was already past 1/3 sugar break (sg 1.054) so I did not add additional nutrients.
I work with Fermaid-O but I don't think that matters as far as your nutrients at that SG. Even though you were past the 1/3 break, you were only at 4.9% ABV and the yeast will continue to use the nutrients up until ~10% ABV. I would have given the remainder of the nutrients. This is something that I asked about recently myself.
2/16 racked onto .44g K-Meta.
The amount of K-Meta is based upon the pH. The lower the pH, the less that is needed. At .44 g, you would have had a pH of ~3.6 to need that much. Most apple juices are at about a pH of 3 with ciders usually being less. I'm not sure what the dates or molasses does for the pH but it's probably a good idea to check for adjusting the sulphite level in place of a shotgun approach.
I pulled 30 ml from the carboy and added 1/2 tsp sorbate, instead of dissolving it immediately clouded and became thicker
The K-sorbate is typically added by weight at .50 to .75 grams per gallon. I believe your volume was a bit more than needed for the gallon. Is all of that on the bottom the sorbate?
Edit: I just had to weigh a 1/2 tsp and I got 1.29g on my smaller scale (didn't unbox my more accurate one). So you were certainly way over what is needed for 1 gallon, especially if your pH was in the lower range.
With your FG at 1.000 you could probably skip the sorbate if you are not back sweetening. If you are back sweetening you could possibly use lactose (will certainly change the mouth feel and flavor some) or use erythritol sweetener. Both of these are not fermentable and will not start the yeast up again and would allow you to skip the sorbate.
Using less K sorb is good to know, is this in general or only for a cyser. Most recommendations are to follow label.
The labeling I have is as I stated above. I am unaware of different types needing different stabilization though the amount is pH dependent. I don't know the specific relationship but info from a cosmetic site is saying that "Potassium sorbate is the inactive salt of sorbic acid. It readily dissolves in water where it converts to sorbic acid, its active form, at a low pH. Sorbic acid is very pH dependent. While it shows some activity up to pH 6 (about 6%), it is most active at pH 4.4 (70%). At pH 5.0 it is 37% active."
Activity of Sorbic Acid
pH % Active Sorbic Acid
3 98
4 85
5 37
6 5.5
7 0
Usually a mead above pH of 4 isn't too typical without some added ingredient providing pH buffering. The lower the pH, the less stabilizers are needed and the better storage potential generally.
is it a reasonable plan to age as is and repeat meta and sorbate when I rack it next time?
These stabilizers will "fade" over time but that isn't usually an issue as far as I know. from a wine site:
1. While Crushing and Destemming: Add 50ppm of SO2 to suppress bad yeasts and bacteria
2. After Alcoholic Fermentation Has Completed: Add 0-10ppm SO2 if you are planning to perform a Malolactic Fermentation. If you are not planning to perform Malolactic Fermentation, move on to 3.
3. After Malolactic Fermentation and Prior to Aging: Add 50-75ppm SO2. This is your "big add". Beyond this, you will just want to assure that your levels do not drop below about 25ppm free SO2.
4. Each time you rack: Add about 25ppm SO2
5. At bottling: add about 35 or 40ppm of SO2
The 25ppm after each racking isn't something that I was aware of. I do plan on purchasing a free SO2 kit to measure so I know where I am at.
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