Read the newbee guide.
It's a good afternoon's waste of your boss' time (if you work in an office), and has some really good information.
Personally, I would steer clear of kits only because I'm a cheap bastard. The kits often contain things that you don't really need to start making mead (bottles, for instance - you won't need them for at least a few months).
Aside from the ingredients, all you really need to get started is a vessel to ferment the mead in, some method of aeration, a sanitizing method, and a hydrometer. This is bare bones to get started, and you *will* need to get the rest of the gear within a few weeks, but if you are starting on a budget, this will do.
Just having gotten back into this hobby, I recently purchased:
-6.5 gallon primary fermentation bucket with lid/airlock hole
-Heavy duty plastic aeration paddle (long handled)
-Fermentation lock
-Hydrometer
-Floating Thermometer
I use a weak bleach solution for sanitation - make sure you rinse thouroughly if you do this.
Before racking, I will need
-racking cane with siphon hose
-5 gallon carboy with holed stopper. You may need more than one if you plan to rack multiple times.
Note on carboys -Glass is traditional, but recently prices have risen because one of the factories that manufactures has them stopped making them. Supply goes down, demand remains the same, price goes up. Welcome to Survey of Economics

Because of this, Food-grade clear plastic is starting to catch on (under the brand name Better Bottle). These are light weight, reportedly they do not attract smells or retain flavors - although I have heard that really deep reds will stain them - and about half the cost of a glass carboy. You have to be careful about scratching the inside of them, however, because any scratch is a place where bacteria or other microbes can hide out, and ruin your mead.
When it is time to bottle, I will want to purchase:
-Bottling cane (I prefer the spring loaded ones)
-Bottles
-Corks (or whatever you prefer to seal bottles with)
-Corker (or capper if you prefer)
Optional gear:
Labels/label printing software
Wax for wax capping bottles
Bottling bucket