Meadmaking will teach you patience, my friend!
BTW - Welcome to the "Gotmead?" community!
In all seriousness, the amount of time that any particular mead will require to integrate and smooth out will be highly dependent on the recipe (generally lower ABV meads are ready more quickly than higher strength versions), and on how you managed fermentation (higher temperatures usually mean quicker ferments, but also produce more harsh tasting components such as fusels). Additions of things like glycerine will change mouthfeel, perhaps influence the perceived "sweetness" of the result, and the like, but won't do much to change the amount of time required for that particular mead to be really ready to drink. Likewise, you can fine with bentonite, gelatine, or any of a number of other fining agents, but that won't make your mead drinkable any earlier -- it'll just make it clearer.
Thanks a bunch. That helps me out a lot, straight to the point. I'll have to just be patient then. Maybe i'll start a couple different batches at once that way i'll always have something going.
I'll keep in mind that there is no substitution for aging and test the glycerine out for that "mouthfeel" and "sweetness" result
Thanks agian