I get what your saying, but it then opens up the next obvious question, why put fruit in it at all? I would like to have hints of blueberry in my blueberry mead, however, I don't expect it to taste like blueberry juice. This is what I keep telling people who want a sip of my concoctions, and I let them know that my orange mead isn't going to taste anything like orange juice, and just because you saw me put 15 pounds of honey in the bucket doesn't mean its going to be sweet either. This is a wine, the method is older than fermenting grapes, not by much, but enough to classify itself as one of two oldest known fermented beverages. But, even in wine making, you can taste varietals. When I make my infusions, I have learned that 100 to 150 proof alcohol (vodka's and grain alcohols) will produce more of the fruit flavor it was married with than 80 proof alcohol. So in that respect, I would have to agree with the two individuals that primary, where massive fermentation is taking place, is the place you want your fruits. But on the other hand, like my infusions, the longer they sit on the fruit, the better they get, and that would be after fermentation in this case. Quite a quandary really, two schools of thought that make sense, yet two professionals say otherwise.