At what point does something become an animal product by Vegan definition? For example - If I pick up an organic apple, there's a good chance it is the direct result of a bee's pollination, along with the animal manure used to fertilize the tree, and I'm essentially taking it out of the mouth of some hungry deer who would gladly eat it if I wasn't able to get to it first. So if honey isn't acceptable, why are apples? I'm not being sarcastic here, I'm actually curious to understand the definition.
An additional question is, do Vegans eschew leather goods?
I agree honey as non-vegan is silly (so did my vegan girlfriend). The reason it's considered an animal product is that it's not just something that came about through their actions, like an apple - it's something they
made specifically
for themselves. We drug them with smoke and "steal" their food, and yes, sometimes a few bees even get hurt in the process.
That's the difference, it's a pretty big one really. That said, A: They're bugs! and B: They make way more honey than they need anyways! We just take their surplus and give them one hell of a healthcare system in return. And C: Bees are ultra important to the environment and our agriculture. Beekeeping is a huge part of the current bee population, and those are the people funding the research to save them.
So at the end of the day, does taking their honey do bees some harm? Yes, some get hurt/killed sometimes (occasionally squished when the combs are being removed I think is what happens?), no real way around that. But - does beekeeping do vast amounts of good, for the bees, for us as people, for the environment? Yup, and in my opinion the good far outweighs the bad.
As to stuff like leather - yes, most vegans don't buy leather products, or anything made with animal products at all. This depends on why the person is vegan though. Someone who's vegan for just health reasons won't care about leather, but someone who's vegan for ethical reasons would care.