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Nothing wrong with a dress code at a formal event where high school students are prone to making unwise choices that might disrupt the proceedings. Although by no means in the Bible Belt (which really shouldn't be an insult), we also check our graduates, twice: once as they are admitted through the doors at Arco Arena (or power balance whatever it's called these days), and once again right before they cross the stage. They have to be fully clothed under their robes and not have any beach balls, etc. It gets really really bad if this isn't done, and parents get irate when their kid's graduation is marred by someone else's kid's histrionics. Bald heads, however, are fine. :)

That's totally reasonable though! It's stuff like "no pants for females" and other ridiculousness that drives me nuts!
 
The no pants, and no bald heads (even if it was done for a charity event for children's cancer and not because I was a 'punk'), and such rules like that were the one's I was trying to showcase. I understood the idea of wanting us to be more formal, but some of the rules were very...archaic and needed to be fought. Like girls couldn't wear pants by virtue of having the wrong junk.

And I wasn't using bible belt as an insult, but it as a quick expression of the moral codes involved in the school I went to. You say bible belt, and people usually have an idea already in their heads. Missouri is too widespread to really bring that across. That's all I was trying to say.
 
it's all about tone, anything can be said in a derogatory way.
Anybody can receive something innocently intended as insulting.
People are annoying like that.
Like calling ppl black, or brown or white, it's simply a descriptor for what they look like, not an insult, but as we all know, it can be used derogatively.
I went to a hospital to visit somebody last year, and I asked for him by name, the girl frowned and was searching through the list. Trying to be helpful I suggested, "He's the short guy with glasses and a broken leg" only to receive a lecture on how I shouldn't label ppl and how it's insulting etc... I mean what's going on? Sometime's I'd like to take PC and give it a right kick up the behind!

Bible belt should not be an insult, but I fear it is oft taken that way.
I'm clearly not busy enough at work though, but you did manage to touch a nerve ;-)
 
Sometime's I'd like to take PC and give it a right kick up the behind!

You're not the only one... Absolutely correct, sometimes it's not a slur, it's just a descriptor... dance all around the race issue when you're trying to describe one friend to another who does know the first one, only to have the one you're trying to explain it to finally clue in, and say "Well why the hell didn't you just SAY s/he was the Native/black/asian/redhead/gay/Muslim/wheelchair-bound one?"

I have relatives in the Bible Belt. One of them is so caustically insular (read: hate-spreading bible-thumping) that most of the family now can't deal with her... yet her son is a wonderful accepting guy embracing the spirit of Christian charity even if the object of his charity is not Christian. <shrug> It takes all kinds.

But yeah, if boundaries aren't pushed, they'll never move. Then again, some boundaries are there for a reason... but that's a whole 'nother discussion that will probably result in Chevette Girl hollering, "And furthermore, get off my lawn!" noting that Chevette Girl does not have a lawn but sometimes is curmudgeony.
 
OK, a bit of thread necro, but I finally got pictures of the Skal (Skoal) bowl whilst hanging around family in Phoenix this holiday season.

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If any of the norse friends around here feel like being nice I'd love to know what the inscription on the inside edge means :) Links to the close-ups of the inscription are below

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